SO I may have a possible fix to the crashes.
I ran the game in safemode.
Before you say that blows... check this out.
I ran the game in safe mode, and who would have thunk it... game and all cheats ran fine, no crashes.
I was able to Solo Plunder for a win, and no crashes.
I will now try to lower all my graphics settings to low, although I have a 11 gb Titan card.
I am also playing on a 65" LG oled, this is less than optimal.. playing at 1080p but what the hell.. if I can run it with no crashes, therre might be something to it.